How often do you think about the Roman Empire? It’s the question on everyone’s lips.

If you’re not familiar with the trend making the rounds on social media right now, it originates from a Roman re-enactor who posted a video on his Instagram with the caption: “Ladies, many of you do not realise how often men think about the Roman Empire. Ask your husband/boyfriend/father/brother—you will be surprised by their answers.” People started to take him up on the suggestion, and the responses were, as he’d promised, shocking. The answers ranged from once a month to as many as multiple times each day.