You’ve got a fridge full of celery juice to cleanse your colon, a beauty cabinet stocked with CBD products to optimize your sleep, and a travel bag packed with Naomi Campbell’s favorite anti-bacterial, cashmere, flight face mask. But have you achieved peak wellness if you haven’t had an orgasm today?

Gurus, celebrities, and fashion magazines promise a happier future with glowing skin through a well-being market that is expected to top $4 trillion by 2020. If we buy into the idea of holistic wellness, we need to normalize sexual health the same way we do physical and mental health.