The family group chat is one of the softer miracles of our digital age—a cozy, closed circuit of understanding and support. A place to inform and entertain. A place to check in, commiserate, and celebrate. And it was in the spirit of celebration that I posted a screenshot of the results of a self-administered test. “Your ADHD score is 1051. Our assessment showed you do not have ADHD.”

The response was immediate and unconditional.