Gabrielle Rifkind has seen more conflict than most in her career. The trained psychotherapist has spent the past three decades working in international conflict resolution and ten years ago founded the independent mediation organization Oxford Process. Backroom talks with Russia and Ukraine and warring factions in the Middle East are her daily bread as she works to “ripen conditions for peacemaking” ahead of official negotiations.
But the 72-year-old believes the skills she has honed in peace talks apply just as well in our own everyday relationships.


